Sex is Awesome Answer this question.
Don’t you want to have the best sex ever?
Then it’s all about waiting. Waiting until marriage will make you risk free, worry free, and will help you find real lasting love. Need we talk about the risks of destructive and gross STDs or the fear of getting pregnant and altering the rest of your life? Somehow, I think you already know the dangers of being sexually active. You’ve heard most of the talk. It’s just a matter of believing that you are valuable enough to protect. Aren’t you worth it? You are the one who has to live your life. Why let a bad decision or a pushy partner bring you a lifetime of pain to have to live with?
Answer this question.
Why do you want to have sex outside a committed relationship anyway?
Maybe you said, “It feels good.” Is the moment of pleasure really worth the damaging results it could bring emotionally and physically, especially to your heart?
Maybe you said, “I feel loved.”
Is it truly love? Hopefully, you won’t discover that it’s not real love when you get pregnant and he leaves you or when you contract an STD and aren’t wanted anymore.
Maybe you said, “It’s hard to say NO!”
Yeah, it is, but you can do it. We all have the power to control ourselves when we want to. Remember, it’s incredibly tough to have to live with regrets, but it is awesome being free from regrets.
Answer one last question.
Do you want to increase your self-esteem and self-respect, as well as the respect others will have for you?
Make some bold and courageous decisions – ones that you will be proud of for the rest of your life. Tell your date that you have set boundaries and that you want to wait. A great relationship is built in other ways besides sex. Spend time talking and doing the same activities together. When you go out, make your date a fun time away from sex.
Some of you are thinking, “Too late, I have already been sexually active.” No, it’s never too late for a new start. Yeah, you’ve made some mistakes. We all have. Make the commitment today to abstain from sex and decide not to compromise. This is called secondary virginity and you’ve just been given a second chance. Set your goal for purity and respect and don’t let anyone take them away from you!
Take the challenge. We dare you!
Experience:
- Freedom from pregnancy and STDs
- Freedom from abortion
- Freedom to be yourself and respect yourself
- Freedom from severe pain when you break-up
- Freedom from guilt, shame, worry, rejection, etc.
- Freedom to plan for the life you want to live
- Freedom to have awesome sex because you waited for marriage
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