Questions & Answers Paternity is important whether the parents stay together or not. All parents should think about accepting the responsibilities that go along with being a father and mother.
If you have been sexually active and there is a possibility of pregnancy, you will need to make some very important decisions – choices that will affect your life as well as the lives others.
Questions you may have:
Q: What does the word “paternity” mean?
A: Paternity is the legal word that means the father is the real father of the child.
Q: What if parents aren’t sure who the father is?
A: Genetic tests can help determine whether a man is the father.
Q: When my child is born, don’t I receive the right as father?
A: In the state of Tennessee, if you are not married when your child is born, your child does not have a legal father.
Q: How can a father bond with his baby?
A: Hold and cuddle your baby. A baby can determine a parent’s touch. Talk to your baby. Your baby will quickly learn your voice and know that you are her daddy. Be involved in the life of your child.
Q: How can I learn about the responsibilities of being a father?
A: Life Choices has answers to your questions and concerns about fatherhood. Even if you are apart, when the pregnancy is medically confirmed, you can join the Life Choices Taking Baby Steps program with the birthmother to learn about parenting, relationships, childbirth, etc. Individual counseling and group classes are available.
Life Choices wants you to become the best mother and father possible whether you are together or apart. Being a parent is a big responsibility, and children are worth your love and commitment. You are also worth it and that’s why Life Choices is here for you! Let Life Choices help you look at the future and make a plan – a plan that you can live with, a plan for you and your baby.
For a free and confidential appointment, call the Life Choices 24-Hour Helpline – 901-388-6262.